A Walk in the Park

This weekend was really the first ‘nice’ weekend of the year (if you’re into all that ‘go and play outside’ crap – I could deal with a few more weeks of cold-and-dry weather myself for my curling), so after spending Saturday with prepping to go to the birthday party, we decided yesterday mandated an out-of-house trip.

And we left it to the Monster to pick where we were going.  Were we going to go to the Zoo, or go to the park? Continue reading

Stones Go Boom

As I mentioned, I’m attending a bonspiel this week (admittedly, at my own local club – the bonspiel is the 74th Annual Francis Dykes Memorial Bonspiel for men with 5 or fewer years of experience – so I’m coming home at night instead of staying at a hotel closer to the rink), and since we won last night, I don’t have another game until Saturday morning.

Basically, for the uninitiated, a ‘bonspiel’ is a curling tournament, meaning that for this weekend, there are forty teams from fifteen clubs on the East Coast (Carolina to New Hampshire, to be specific) at the club, so it’s very crowded, very warm and very loud in the warm room while games are going on.  As you can imagine, that’s probably not a good environment for most children with Autism.  While the Monster isn’t sensory adverse, it would almost certainly be too much sensory stimulation even for him, and he’d be inclined to go shrieking and running around between people’s legs.

Curling, itself, is an interesting sport – it’s a five century old Scottish sport that involves two teams of four players on a 160 foot long ice sheet, and somewhat resembles bocce in terms of scoring and chess in terms of strategy.  It’s… different than a lot of sports – it’s slower paced most of the time, it’s social, it’s not loud, and it doesn’t require the tremendous amounts of physical coordination that sports like gymnastics, basketball or other activities involve.

The social aspect is important on the ice and afterwards.  You have to talk to your teammates to communicate what you’re doing on the ice, what you’re going to be doing, what you want each person doing during a stone’s delivery… and you end up talking to your opponents over beverages and snacks after the match.  It’s a very low-barrier-to-entry environment to socialize in a very small group (eight people generally at the end).

I’ve mentioned before (see Have a Ball) that there’s a curling club out in the Midwest that does the occasional program for children and adults with Autism.  I’ve since discovered the original message I saw – it’s the Duluth Curling Club, in coordination with the Courage Center – and contacted them to find out how they run their program.  Their suggestions were along the lines of what I would have expected – to manage the environment to further decrease the noise, prep the participants for what to expect, go with the adaptations for special needs curling.  However, none of their suggestions are anything massive either, and it has a very open path to higher functioning participants to actually transition to ‘normal’ curling when they feel ready.

While the Monster’s not old enough yet to go curling, I’m hoping to get a program started for when he is old enough.

Your Release

When I started going to the Dads’ Talk support group that I’ve been infrequently attending (infrequent if only due to my own winter schedule), the first thing that they ask new members to talk about is their situation – what’s the situation at home that brought them to the group, what is their home life like… and what do you do for a release? Continue reading

Making a Splash – The National Aquarium, Baltimore

Last night was Pathfinders for Autism‘s night at the National Aquarium, and we took the kids to go see the fishes.

The wife and I haven’t been to the aquarium in years.  (We went there on one of our early dates, and then again after the Australia exhibit opened.  On the other hand, as a child visiting Baltimore, my grandmother used to take us and it was one of my favorite places.)  The biggest issues, normally, are the space – the National Aquarium can be a bit claustrophobic when it’s crowded – and the design of the space being not-quite-stroller-friendly. Continue reading

Boing

When we had the initial IEP meeting a little over nine months ago, one of the biggest changes was the removal of the Monster’s physical therapy.

According to the reports, he didn’t need any further physical therapy – the schools are primarily concerned with his ability to walk normally, ascend and descend stairs, and handle himself with his class at a ‘reasonable pace’.  The fact that he’s still clearly delayed, because he doesn’t ascend or descend stairs with alternating motion, doesn’t seem to factor in to the decision, and despite our best efforts to keep it in the plan, the schools put their collective foot down. Continue reading

Adaptive Fun

Of all the things that I never knew about before dealing with having a child with Autism, it is often the sheer number of activities that are out there that stun me the most.

I mentioned the trip to Sesame Place a few days ago – that was through Variety Philadelphia – but that’s really just the tip of the iceberg when push comes to shove.  I’m sure there are similar resources around the country, but here’s a smattering of what I’m talking about: Continue reading

On the Road – Sesame Place (A Very Furry Christmas)

And before folks think I’ve lost total leave of my senses – yes, we went to Christmas at Sesame Place.  That may seem odd for me (being that I’m Jewish and not inclined to ‘accommodating’ Christmas with my family), but…

Well, let me start off by putting credit where credit is due.  Variety Philadelphia was responsible for this outing – they offer tickets to events for children with various disabilities, and Autism qualifies.  So, if you’re in reach of Philadelphia, go to their site and look up the criteria for applying to get on their list for these and other events. Continue reading

On The Road – Please Touch Museum (Philadelphia, PA)

Since summer is ending for the Monster after this weekend, we decided to take part of the weekend to do a mini-vacation.

Originally, we’d planned on taking the entire weekend to go away, but given how we’ve had issues previously with massive disruptions to his schedule and issues we had with finding a reasonably-priced hotel, we decided to knock it down to a single day trip. Continue reading